My name is Henry Ighiebor, Am from Edo state, A Lawyer and am 44 years of age. Am a self made man but am not married. ''Silvia am granting you this interview because a lot of men end up with the wrong partners and live in unhappiness silently, it is over time they realize its really their fault''..
''Sometime four years ago, not to go into many stories and experiences i will use this to analyze my point to you.
I met a lady, Pretty, bursty, intelligent, Generous, kind and prayerful but my mistake was missing the fact that she was still a human being and not an angel and so was still bound to get upset and make mistakes.. We Men like to deceive ourselves by saying i will test her patience before i marry her forgetting that if she passes that test you will never know when she is angry and what makes her angry which is deadly because when she finally lives with you in the house that attitude of never reacting to anything Scares men, ask any man who will want to speak the truth.
Back to my story, although the environment we met wasn't really nice for a man to conclude on a serious relationship with her, but she was quite different, modest, had a job was super independent, she could easily be interpreted as a Socialite and so I didn't care, we exchanged numbers, i kept on calling and calling until she accepted to come outing with me on one evening when i had visited her neighborhood. Eventually after the outing i took her to my home. The next day by evening she was ready to go, i pulled a stunt of how i was looking for my money, to tell you the truth i felt like she may had picked it and so i asked her, she innocently responded that she hadn't seen any money much less taken it, to clear my doubt i searched again and found it and so i gave her some money which i knew was nothing to her but she showed so much appreciation, it was just 5k.
To make this story brief.....
She visited regularly, she supported financially in her little way, she even cooked for my siblings with her money when i didn't have a kobo. until one weekend she had visited me and had stayed over from the Friday night which she came straight from work into the Saturday morning. a friend who is married camped his girl friend in my house but i didn't think that was a the problem, but that wasn't the problem. I came back from chilling with friends that midday to hear my neighbor who had come by to blend tomatoes, reporting my new girlfriend of being hostile and i went straight to her and attacked her.
My mistake was i was suppose to ask her to explain what happened and possibly allow them both stand before me so as to get a better understanding of what happened but No i took my neighbors view as correct. i was shocked when my girl friend got pissed and all she could say was ''Fuck you'' at this point it was evident she was irritated by my question but i didn't make things get better, I even sat with my neighbors and friends as we called her names together and humiliated her... but i just realized my neighbors and friends never wanted me to settle down so that my house will continue to be leisure ground and now its too late to call her back, because i know her she is a warrior, she knows what she wants and never gets distracted..
I hope that where ever she is she gets to read my story and understands with me. since that event she called only once to apologize and since then has never called. I know she apologized just to set herself free from me and move on. i hope she forgives me..
Silvia: you see Mr. Henry am not trying to justify her or anyone else but to say it as it is, you two are from different backgrounds.
I for one, was thought not to let a stranger in when the person who owns the house isn't around... s what ever transpired between your then Girlfriend and Neighbor. should never have been blamed on your girl friend. that been said. call to apologize.
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